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How about all the other reasons a good Catholic dating couple might not get married immediately, like financial reasons, finishing college, one having a military career, etc.? I pay my own rent and bills, have my own job, and decide for myself who I will marry, or not.
Once again, you’re implying that “courting” and “dating” are different. and where are the guidelines for how you’re supposed to treat him? But that doesn’t mean that those fluffy feelings are objectively wrong, or shouldn’t be there at all.
So, you’re telling me — with a straight face, no less — that I’m not allowed to “keep company” with any adult male that I’m not courting? A man who is unemployed or not gainfully employed has no business courting. True, neither party in a relationship should let fluffy “feelings” dictate their entire relationship, because feelings change, and fluffy romance is only nice for a short time or in movies.
Spending time alone with a man is not automatically a “near occasion of sin.” If it is for you, once again, I recommend you find yourself a spiritual advisor, and stop projecting your problem onto the rest of us. Fluffy Horde members or psychotic feminists trying to debunk Christianity like to hold up that verse as proof that Christians in general (and Catholics in particular) are backward, evil, misogynist pigs. That verse doesn’t mean that a wife must blindly obey or “submit to” her husband at all times and in all things.
Just walk into a restaurant or any office in the country. It’s impossible to “get to know” someone without SOME kind of attachment forming, even if it’s just the “we know each other’s names and that neither of us like sushi, and we both like Marvel movies” and “I kind of like this person, let me find out if we can like each other better.” We do not live in the 18th century . His permission is not required for anyone I might care to date . I’m sure you’re making a horrible attempt to reference Ephesians : “Let women be subject to their husbands, as to the Lord.” But that isn’t the same thing as “submitting” to anyone.
Anybody that claims to be dating you or courting for 2 years or more is simply wasting your time. With that kind of attitude, you’d be more at home in a mosque. Once again, as an adult, I am not under my father’s protection.