My boyfriend and i have been dating for 3 months
I don’t know whether the relationship is ruined, but you’ll find out by coming clean. Find out how he deals with conflict and whether he can put your mind at ease.
I have to be honest — I’m not loving this situation.
At the same time however, if you haven’t had the “Defining The Relationship” talk – you’re not exclusive or otherwise a “serious” relationship – then you want something cute and fun that reflects the fact that you’ve been enjoying your time together.
Giving something practical like, say, cookware, implies a more committed relationship than you actually have.
Your insecurities started this downhill roll, and they continued your roll out into the street . JAKELNHYDEDrinking, sexting, and you don’t trust him. Instead, you let this fester, and that’s made matters worse. You’re now six months in, at what point did you become exclusive? Or are you assuming your relationship is exclusive? If he breaks with you over snooping, simply keep yelling, “You can’t break up with me for snooping, I’m breaking up with you for philandering!