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In four-fifths of them, the men want to have sex way more often than the women do.

And the women are not crazy about the men's secret Internet porn lives. Yet union with a partner -- someone with whom to wake, whom you love, and talk with on and off all day, and sit with at dinner, and watch TV and movies, read together in bed, do hard tasks together, and to be loved by. I had experienced varying degrees of loneliness since my guy and I split up. Also, most men a single woman meets have been separated or divorced for about 20 minutes. Most seemed pretty normal, with college degrees, which I don't have, but certainly meant to; some attractive, mostly divorced but some like me, never married, some witty, some dull, sort of like real life.

After our breakup, I had just assumed there would be a bunch of kind, brilliant, liberal, funny guys my age to choose from. Surely my friends would set me up with their single friends, and besides, I am out in the public a lot doing events at bookstores and political gatherings, the ideal breeding ground for my type of guy. People don't know single guys my age who are looking for single women my age. Almost everyone wonderful that my friends know is in a relationship, or gay, or cuckoo. The man of my most recent long-term relationship, whom I'd been with nearly seven years, was in a new, committed relationship about three weeks after we split up. Curiously, almost without exception, they were "spiritual but not religious." I thought for a while that this meant ecumenical, drawn to Rumi, Thomas Merton, Mary Oliver.

After 10 minutes of this, my neck went out on me, like one of the Three Stooges. I made a few practice casual touches, but he didn't respond.

Then I met a man who was as far to the left as I am, in the weeks before the presidential election! My consultants said that I should pay attention to this.

They mentioned that they drank moderately, or never, or socially (the most you can admit to.

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